My Story With A Blind Couple: Living Above Limitations

It was business as usual but later became totally unusual; over my contract to cover a wedding and traditional marriage ceremony. As a cameraman, I normally negotiate my business before getting my crews set for the deal, and the particular job was not an exception. The event was perceived to be massive, so I had to get extra cameras to cover the full event. You must understand that the negotiation was very promising, as he was not even after the price. All he asked of was the assured quality of the images. I was not able to see any of these people, because the deal was negotiated over the phone. I had to believe that there is always ability in disability.
It was not my first day into the game but my experience proved me wrong. I use to think that the power to hustle was only given to those that claim being able. Sometime, you just have to see things yourself. My cameramen were startled when a blind man appeared as the host but there was already this default feeling I had for any disabled-it only takes the mind to accept the state of the body. It was not a shock to me but when I saw the wife, I had to pause and give the whole thing a second thought. She was just as sound as you. Not blind in any form and has every good quality that could define an endowed woman. I just had to continue with my job.
Me, siting my standby camera far from the scene


Normally, my duty was to cover the event but it was just too exceptional to be left untold. I had to capture more clips for my readers. When I was interviewing the blind groom, he revealed to me his hidden powers; his ability to think on the opposite. He believes that he share equal opportunity with everyone. He told our Magazine that all he needed in life was to understand the he was made for a purpose.  What marveled me most was that he has acquired any academic position but manages to understand English Language.  This led me into serous thoughts: Many are out there with certain excuses on why they could not make it in life. Some have given up in to the phase of these current economic challenges. It is no longer news to hear that unemployment is on the increase but here is a man blind from birth and now a breadwinner of his family, married with a beautiful wife and has a sound profession, farming.
“I farm like every farmer, I use hoes the same way you use them and I always expect something rich from my efforts, I believe God has a purpose for my and that’s why I must let no challenge weigh me down” he added

I Don’t Know What Your Take Is On This:
Some are really blinded with the stereotypes that you can only succeed because you have all that it takes to be there. The big question is: What does it really take to be there? For me, it only takes your mind, your understanding that you can do it. It is a conventional fact that the disabled are facing some sorts of marginalization, stigmatization and rejections. The acclaimed social stigmatization are hereby disproved by the so-called blind, who understands that his life is his responsibility.
I don’t know what your challenges may be. It depends on your state of mind, your ability to stand against limitations and think positive about the things yet to be see. It may be your academic challenges, family background, emotional traumas, financial difficulties, or even your deformations. Take time to compare your lives with those without life in them (I mean the dead)
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Find a reason for living and your nation will never be happier than that. Thanks for reading; Share to touch life today.Please share, to encourage someone today


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